Let me clarify YET AGAIN (since this point doesn't seem to take hold).
I never said they deserved what they got. I'm not the one that deals out karma--you'll have to ask whatever deity/force/chance you believe in for the ruling on that one.
However, while i will admit i'm going on conjecture, i have to point out that you don't really even need to know someone to be guilty of something on the ridicule against them. Can you say for 100% certainty, Matt, that every single person you listed did not slight them in any way, shape, or form? I doubt that. Call it a hunch it you will. you could say i see through the eyes of the Eric and Dylan (however, my revenge is in the fact that i'm one of the few from my graduating class *Not* sorking at the wall mart or the Winco some 8 years after I graduated
), and i am pretty sure i can say thatmost of the people from the lists probably weren't "innocent".
But, do i think Eric and Dylan were right...HELL NO. Shooting up a school is lame and as you aptly put it...cowardly. But, as i learned in the aftermath after the media focused less on the fact that 13 people were killed by their peers, and more focused on the trenchcoats and the apparent "clique" rather than the facts of the situation, it can be a great point to make to those that feel themselves unassailable, and even you have to admit, Matt, that you may have made fun of someone in your past, or laughed at someone in passing based upon ridicule, and once it happened, i think you have to admit that it scared you--that someone *could* snap and you'd be liteally under the gun.
Think of that point.
Now, from the people i know from that area, they have described many from that area falling into the "foul-mouthed, chauvenistic white trash" (which, if you notice i didn't say excluded Eric and Dylan), and that many are very elitist. And notice that i didn't say that being a loner--by choice or popular demand is a justification on one's actions--it's not.
However, not being able to get inside everyone's head, you still have to ask, why did the "trenchcoat mafia" band together in that clique? it's something that would have to be addressed in the psycologial level. My guess is peer rejection--maybe not even from High school, but before. After all, what you described would be a perfect reaction--a group of kids in similar circumstance, adopt a sign of solidarity (a trenchcoat), and then react the same way against those that forced them into the situation. A basal human reaction with little thought and a lot of impluse behind it.
But, a couple of Bad Apples ruined it for everyone. Sucks, yes. I don't doubt that. But again:
Eric and Dylan have the modt blood on their hands--point well made.
Their parents have blood on their hands--another point well made.
Those that ridiculed them have blood on their hands (to a lesser degree, but degree doesn't wash you clean).
The parents of those kids have blood on their hands--after all, they tought--or allowed them to ridicule those that were different.
The teachers and faculty have blood on their hands--for the same as the aforementioned parents.
And the rest of the students that showed indifference had blood on their hands.
That why i don't see anyone as innocent (but no one deserving of what they got--if you follow). As a result, EVERYONE has blood on their hands. And not just there--everywhere the same @!#$ happens. I would change it, but if i was the "supreme being" that you say i come off as, I would be able to change human nature.
I can't. If i could, a lot of things would be different. I'm just dissaffected by it because i don't believe life is sacred, i know people could die that i care about without reason or rhyme that i can fathom, and yes, I still have to go on. Life is not a picnic--it's a kidn where the birds @!#$ all over you while you and your g/f are trying to have a moment.
Call me jaded if you will.
And yes, i have a big ego--and i admit i'm an arrogant prick. But again, there's nothign so sacred that i can't see how someone would find humor in it. Hell, if i lost 99% of my freinds because Mt. Rainier went off and wiped out Seattle and only a handful were smart enough to get the hel out of dodge--i would expect people to be making fun of them--no matter how close i was.
Call me crass, call me crude, call me an @!#$, call me deluded--fine, i won't argue with you--but don't threaten to shoot me in the face (otherwise you'd be no better than Eric and Dylan), and don't assume that i'm a homosexual based on this--my g/f would disagree.
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